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August 15
Yes, they do, and thanks god, they are almost crazy about shopping.
It might sound odd to People living in Nordic Europe where shops shut punctually at 6pm everyday, and generally stay closed during weekends. I asked my Danish roommate when I firstly arrived in Denmark what do people do on weekends if there is no shopping mall open. His answer came to me with his great curiosity: Weekends are for going out to natures, what do you mean by “no shopping mall”? Well, believe me, young Chinese will soon go mad if they find out they can not go anywhere to buy some stuffs after work or on weekends, not because they are too rich to keep money in their pockets or really in need of buying things. Shopping, I just found out after I left China, turns out to be one of Chinese peoples’ main entertainments in spare time and choices there are always more than needs.
Visiting Pingyao, an ancient Chinese city built in 14th century surrounded by its ancient city walls during a national photographic festival in Sepember,2007, made me think that the central role of commence in Chinese daily life can be dated back to early ages. When small towns in Europe were built around a church as a center in medieval times, Chinese cities thrive on the prosperity of commerce and a shopping street usually served as a spine of a city where all kinds of civic activities went on.
At a first glance of cities in China, you might find everyone is trying to sell something, in different ways, Shops are literally everywhere, so do advertisements. Shopping malls erected in centers of all sizes of cities as landmarks become meeting points for urban inhabitants, walking streets ranging from different lengths and scales are highlighted as major sightseeing places, not mention the massive markets you will not even be able to find way out easily and countless vendor stands appear outside any park or square. These are not only places people trade, but also social: to meet, pastime, and date.
But, things have not always been like that, at least not so three decades ago. In the late 80s when I was a little kid, I remember following my Dad shopping for groceries with “tickets”(click for photos). In the time of planed economy, tickets are used for basic daily necessities such as rice, flower, oil and meat, and each person were assigned only limited amount which varies according to his/her social class, profession, dependents’ number and so on. My parents were paid with tickets and cashes each month, and the whole family was got really delighted one day my dad were paid with a ticket for a cycle as it is one of the products that you were not able to buy with cash in any shops!
In the early 90s, in the little costal town in which my parents and I were living, there once only were stated owned shops in which according to my memory, attendants were always dressed in a white grown and stayed far behind the counter with poker faces. They were always reluctant to move when you asked for a look at something displaced in the counter, not mention answering your request of anything, because any increase of sales will not make any difference on their salaries which are fixed to certain amount once they were hired and they were assured their position were permanent. Things changed much quicker than these shop attendants could ever imagine. In fact, quicker than any ordinary people could ever realize. On one Saturday morning, my mom brought me to watch an opening of the first supermarket in my town. The whole supermarket, and even the whole street were packed with curious and exciting people with little knowledge of supermarket, “There is no poker faces behind the counters!” “You can choose anything you want and pay at the exits!”
People were celebrating their freedom to consume while being surprised by the emergence of diverse choices of goods. Of course I didn’t realize that my country was undergoing the most important transition in its contemporary history but only quietly listened to my dad exciting stories of his adventures to the south (where the economic reform initially started) as one of the first salesmen in a state owed textile factory. He bought my mom and me gold, dress, silverwares used on planes and all other “exotic” stuffs as I began to dream of the outside world. We also enjoyed walking to a night market not far from our home in the center after dinner when my parents both had time, and I only got to know such kind of night markets appeared all over China since mid-90s were important signs of a prospective market economy.
30 years later than the launch of economic reform, Chinese people's ability and desire of consumption always shocked me while I got really tired of massive shopping mall in which you can spent a whole day, driving to the huge supermarket in the suburban and shopping for a week as once shown in the Hollywood movies, endless advertisements trying to persuade you everywhere even when you are sleeping.
One thing I really appreciated in living in highly developed Western Europe, especially in Amsterdam, is its preservation of small retail shops specified in various aspects (a friend even found a shop only sold tooth brush!) as well as their dignity of keeping shut on Sundays. If Dutch do not have less enthusiasm for shopping than Chinese people, they usually go to street markets or flea markets where individuals’ labor is highly respected, in my eyes.
Thursday, August 6, 2009
I can not give a correct answer, because I know it largely depends on the context. For instance, seeing one girl in a commercial feel surprised to see her unevenly tanned shoulders as they were partially covered by her sun-top, if you are expecting her to undo the top and joyfully bask in the sun, you are a complete lay person to Chinese aesthetics. What you will soon find, on different TV channels, girls are applying sun creams marked with “+++” before they get out of their rooms even it is fairly a cloudy day, on the street, there is barely a girl walking without a umbrella in a ordinary summer day although they already had protection with sun creams for faces and for bodies respectively.
Are girls really so eager to be a “white skinned” girl? Partially yes. As an old saying “white skin redeems a hundred bad features.” shows, having a light color is traditionally considered as a necessity to be a beauty. As “your skin looks so pale” is actually a big compliments for girls and it is not hard to understand their scare of being tanned.
But some hostility towards the sun is unconsciously built, mainly thanks to the modern consumerism. Commercials, TV soaps, Sales in the department stores, female magazines keep on giving you a friendly hint that, “No one likes ugly black swans! ” and further social structures, such as family, peers, employers etc help girls to define “happiness” as “being loved by others”. So the simplified logic becomes, being white-skinned guarantees you more happiness and love! How wonderful, so just go to the store and buy according to the prescription: There are thousands of products can help you lighten your skin color.
So, a western girl living in China might find herself very limited choices to be beautiful in her understandings. All the daily products she can find in shops from facial foam to foundation power are all made with the “whiten effect”. That is what I thought immediately after I found out my first purchase in Denmark turned out to be a lotion helps to get sun tanned despite I was expecting something opposite. By the time when summer approaches and girls began to dress themselves in bikinis and have sun bath in parks in Amsterdam, I am already too sophisticated to be surprised: in countries with Atlantic climate, it really feels like a blessing when you see the sun shinning.
However, the closeness with the sun can only be enjoyed in North/Western Europe where it never gets seriously too warm. Although the climate of China varies greatly, the majority of its territory has a boiling summer with a temperature over 30 degrees Celsius. I have the reason to believe, if you were there, you will get fed up soon as well:)
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Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Well, things posted here mainly are ideas have haunted me for a while before I decided to put them out here, and I was hesitating about the language before setting up this blog. Finally, despite my broken English, I decided to write in a language that makes sense to friends around me and whomever is interested in knowing more about China without being scared away by the exotic Chinese characters!
Being away from my own country not only means a six-hour time differences, for which I need to set a special clock with Chinese time on my desk that I will not wake up my grandpa 3am, also it mentally separates me from the natural environment I was born to belong to, therefore I have the chance to observe the differences between my people and the "others”, in a objective(I guess) way.
I have been working as a journalist after my bachelor for three years in China, based in different major cities. The Life Magazine I worked for was quite an idealistic publication, for which I have traveled around this massive country in the aim of documenting its modernization process. This amazing experience taught me a lesson "How little I understand about my own country".
Coming to Europe at the end of the last summer and starting a course with 44 students from 30 countries brought my life and focus of thinking in a ever fresh direction. I do not remember how many times when people confirmed with me that I am from the China, they would raise questions starting with "Why": Why is your population so big? Why is a country with liberal market economy still fine with its non-democratic political system? Why is the housing price so high while your GDP per capita is actually so low? Why does it claim Taiwan part of its territory? Why...is it so different in so many aspects?
Some questions became clichés after all, and I just used some diplomatic answers if I noticed that they were not actually interested in knowing what I thought. But some did inspired me with further research for answers and my deeper interest in finding out why and how is China(not)different from others. I hope this blog can help me to keep these interesting discussions and findings.
When I expressed my doubt that "Why am I recognized as a Chinese, just for I happened to be born there?" People always tried to persuade me with "Come on, you are holding a Chinese passport which is only slightly more useful than an Iranian's" or "Go and look at the mirror and find out yourself! ". I am not satisfied with these responses. Starting this blog is also a means to find out answers to this and therefore a better way to understanding myself.
October 31 It started with Pablo Neruda...then P started reading another Chilean poetry in BEAUTIFUL Spainsh..with cozy candle and music, we began to read poems in respective languages...
G got something unforgetable..(Portuguese)
Amor é fogo que arde sem se ver, É ferida que dói, e não se sente; É um contentamento descontente, É dor que desatina sem doer. É um não querer mais que bem querer; É um andar solitário entre a gente; É nunca contentar-se de contente; É um cuidar que ganha em se perder.
- Love is a fire that burns unseen,
A wound that aches yet isn't felt, An always discontent contentment, A pain that rages without hurting, A longing for nothing but to long, A loneliness in the midst of people, A never feeling pleased when pleased, A passion that gains when lost in thought.
-----Luís de Camões(c. 1524 – 1580 ) October 28 I think I should get up earlier
to see the sunshine
if there is any
Daylight Saving time ends
and the sunset approaches earlier and earlier...and earlier
heard it can come even before4pm, if not 3pm
in these case
it is very possible that
I fall in sleep because of dark
and wake
in the dark too October 16 We went to Copenhagen for a three day weekend trip. Here is some conclusions:
1CPH is a real city. Skin colors,music types,food choices etc are all mixed.
2CPH is not safe. Vicky got her wallet stolen on the shopping street and begger appears everywhere!
3CPH is sooo beautiful in SUNSHINE. I gave up plans to museum and opera,just because of the unbelievable amazing sunshine.
4CPH is fashionable as well as erotic...find this by yourself!
October 04 Because my endless curiosity, we(our house) decide to make every Tuesday as a Question Day. You can challenge any question to anybody, and any question should be answered.
It started from my question ” Why were you shaking head when the professor was explaining sovereignty using Kosovo as an example?" He came from Serbia. God, I never could imagine I would have someone come from Belgrade as classmate as well as roomate. We have to see each other 16hours a day.. No reason not to seize the precious chance, isn't it?! He hesitated for a second and began to explain his views, which led to a passionate discussion especially after the American girl's joining.
Last evening, with beers, again, we tried to dig the conversation between our the Serbian guy and our classmate, a Albanian girl from Kosovo held earlier that day. It inevitably leads to topics like freedom, democracy, globalization and identity. Finally, we decided not talking about these "never existed ideal concept" and some one suggested "Let's talk about LOVE". Just like the disputes we had in the previous debates, we again divided into realistic perspective as” Love hurts"romantic perspective as"Love is sweet",and skeptical "Love does not exist". Topic soon move on the sex evoked by a girl claiming that she would not mind if her boyfriend cheated her on another guy.” Because he has what i do not have." This liberal saying seems offended the guys and after servel round of questioning and clarifying, the guy suggested us talking about love shouted, pls, let's go back to talk about globalization!
Just now, while easting lunch while at the same time reading for writing the assignment, I read the definition of democracy out. The Serbian
who is eating in front of me imposed his great doubt that no modern country has ever reach the democracy ,which again led our conversation towards a diplomatic debate. Trying to creat anther atmosphere, I raised another question, can you tell me how to breath when you are swimming. However, his detailed demonstration just stimulated my another question:” Then, why can't human just breath in the water, like fishes do?"
His answer seems useful: Because, fishes can not breath outside the water.
See, that is freedom.
September 27 Sunshine make EVERYTHING everybody evermoment, beautiful.
This is my conclusion after one month stay in Denmark, the so called fairytale country. Fall is just on the corner,Damn winter is on its way,sunshine becomes more precious. Finish the exam,and get out of the house,NOW!!!! September 25 "What's going on?" Igor asked me when I went out from the bathroom combing my hair.
"Nothing but I am ust thinking to go to the library.""What for?""Well, maybe I really should try to start my paper now." I was serious.
But after ONE hour sitting in the bright and quite reading room in front of an amazing blondy girl, I have not even opend a word file yet...As you can understand my anxiety seeing fellow students not far away are kniting theirs in a remarkable speed with a confident simle on their young faces(though I can only see their backs).
Anyway, I, as being a cencer, totally forget about the paper when I dropped into this site( http://photooftheday.hughcrawford.com/). Here are more than 6000 polariod pictures taken by a guy called Jamie Livingstone who passed away on Oct.25th,1997. His friend put his images taken in nearly 20years online after his leaving. Though the index, we can see a real man's life going on with a beautiful Polariod tune. Most of them are as ordinary as you are going through in everyday life,but it is just because of the vivid realness contrast to the cold death brought me such moving emotion. Tone once told me on the bus from Chengdu to Mianyang in a sunny Autumn afternoon:"I felt depressed by the nature of films, they can never be the same as the moment I captured them. " He was as sceptical as usual,"However, I was also scared techniques such as Polariod, the photo came out was just the momet you pressed the shutter, and moreover, it is the only one in the world,like the time passed by. "I have no idea if it is the same reason Jamie took the Polariod camera to document his life. But seeing a once real life shinning though pictures really touched me. And only thing I can do as a memorial to him is to pick pictures taken on my birthdays and array them in order here. Though seeking for the overlaps we had experienced together on the planet, I feel great joy and peacefulness.
 1983 I was zero, started to try very hard to understand the world I fell into
 1984  1985  1986  1987  1988 my youngest cousin was born,the momet I touch his little face, I felt I was a big sister now.
 1989  1990 would go to school in the next month, I could not write my surname still,it is complicated!
 1991  1992 Dad went to the south for the fisrt time, brought us many lovely things and stories.
 1993  1994  1995  1996  1997 To watch the handover of Hongkong on my fifteenth Birthday,for the first time in my life,I went to bed after 1am. Dad and I celebrated with my favorite,watermellone! HK was still a farway concept for me that time.
4 September 23 I am using the contax t2-film one-thus I was not abloe to upload daily life as frequently as I did. Thanks to dear Ms. Chile, I was tagged in many nice pictures taken in the world party the last Friday. Undoubtfully, it was a great fun to have a party with food all around the world made my fellow classmates and to see people's joyful face after taking enough alcohol. Indian music was of course prevailed during the party and so did the indian girls. But look at the Lartin Americans, they dominated the stage! Anyhow, I really liked the time when everybody was required to sing their own songs, however, I forgot my lyrics,damn!
 This is literally how it goes at the beginning, most of us, including those never-full growing boys were not able to eat sweets after having so many food!
 Paullette is a great dancer,cheeres!
September 09 Well I admit that I was sort of drunk on the satdurday night. The only thing I remember was we drank a lot beer and danced together crazily,Igor iwas shouting, Gab was leading me to turn all the time,Emma was so pretty..and everybody looked happy with alcohol. But when I woke up the Sunday morning,found that my dear digital camera got too much beer too...!!! I tried to save her with my hair dryer,but it seemed that she would prefer sleeping for a while,nn,maybe forever.
Ok,this is the story. Though I have the contax one,but guess still I will get a new digital one as soon as possible. How about the crazy photos took that night?God bless them! September 05  sunny sunday,we went to the beach,though we took the opposite direction which finally leads us the the other beach,it was still quite nice. mainly because of the sunshine.
Brave Michelle(for me the water is freezing,but M is from Canada) and Andrew
 the danish angel!!!!
 Look at thse toes,wwwowww!
the other day ,we went to a quite interesting play called room service( gobsquad.com/currentvideo.php?id_project=6¤t=current). it was held in the hall of a hotel,and the actors and actress can only stay in their own room and play. however,there is a phone connected to the audience that any of us can pick it up and join the play. this is the future talk show star Andrew answering the phone.
 all of us in No.110, from:Spain,British,China,Serbia,Germany and US
 the fist hotdog made by my self in my life! August 30 The main reason that I am here again is that I want to have my friends(especially those english speakers)updated upon my life here in Europe thus I will mainly use English here as well as many pictures. But I really recommend you Chinese guys to turn to the other blog of mine on Babyin.blogbus.com which you will certainly find more profound words about danish daily life from an international student's perspective and hopefully some of my academic experience here.
Concerning me, basically, I settled down now in a little house north to the University of Aarhus in Denmark after a nearly24 hours flight from Shanghai on the 17th. Today is the last day of the tight-scheduled orientation week. Everybody seems to be quite enjoying the damn cheap friday bar at school and some of them are hanging out to see the biggest yearly event here in the city center,however I came back home early without any alcohol after a failed shoes hunting with Saum, an indian guy in my programme. But my flat mates who are super nice people are all home when I was back really turned me on. Now we have four in our house,two other who took the summer course just moved out last week. All of us,the previous two included are from different countries, but we do get along very well. Not surprisingly, I am the only asian in the house,if not in the neighborhood!
Just before I let me pictures talk,pls allow me to say, I do miss you guys!
My little house from the way back school
Geoge(second left,hope it is the right spelling)'s departure day,dear Guio and her bf Knud
Ronald's farewell night, we went to play pool
This is how my room goes. it is nice with two big windows. and there is a double bed on the other side(but i wont let you see since i have not found the right duvet cover)
The kitchen and the front door, bikes are very important in danish life
 
Backyard garden, laundry and mail box with my name on it!

Window view from my room and of course,ME(applause!!) June 01 有个上海摄影师很喜欢使用这个词.
听上去有中风雨飘摇的味道.
May 21 女人跟男人,要的总归不同.
为什么呢?明明都是人.
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